In May of 2012 Kenny and I welcomed our baby girl, Lucy Grace. Lucy was diagnosed with Spina Bifida when I was 20 weeks pregnant. Like many other families our experience was difficult and painful to talk about in the beginning. I have attempted to document our journey with SB so our family and friends can stay informed. Although we had some serious medical challenges in the first few months, Spina Bifida does not define our daughter or our family. Kenny and I are so lucky to have two kids we adore. This is our life with a 7 yr old and an infant....with an SB twist!

Sunday, June 21, 2009

An Absence of Antagonism

In 9 days we are moving. The 3 of us. Together. Is that weird? It was decided weeks ago. Now everything has changed. We are going to live together for atleast a few more months, primarily because we are not financially ready to seperate. It will give me time to find a job and for us to start changing bills and opening new bank accounts and all the little things no one ever wants to have to deal with.

Will it be difficult? Definitely. Will it help Noah adjust to Mommy and Daddy in two different bedrooms. I think so. Is it just delaying the inevitable day when he moves out. Unfortunately.

Websters defines amicable as exhibiting goodwill and an absence of antagonism. I can do this. I will be fine....repeat after me....I can do this. I will be fine....I can do this. I will be fine....